Sexting: Should We?

Sexting: Should We?

Considering this is a sex blog, it only makes sense to talk about sexting! Sex and technology have been finding more and more interesting ways to overlap and merge overtime meanwhile safety and privacy are considered less important to consider. So the question remains, is there a sexting guide that create a safe way to sext? And is it for us?

A Partner, Potential, or Pockets | Love or Money in A Relationship?

A Partner, Potential, or Pockets | Love or Money in  A Relationship?

Love or money? When considering a relationship or considering if I should stay in a relationship, the question of love or money have never not been a concern. But what is more concerning is that it is hard to think of a couple that started out having both. This begs the question, is it greedy to expect love and money in a relationship? Or can I have my cake and eat it to?

Sex With the Lights On | While Black

Sex With the Lights On | While Black

Sex with the lights on can be awkward, weird, and certainly un-sexy. Unless you decide that its not. We all have these made up ideas of why sex with the lights on is not for us, but are we missing out?

Rough Sex While Black

Rough Sex While Black

Rough sex can be hot, fun and exhilarating, but is as black folk, is rough sex while black ok? This week on All The FUQs, check out my thoughts on rough sex while black and come back next week on tips to have safe and enjoyable rough sex, you and your partner can enjoy.

Morning Sex | Why It Really Helps

Morning Sex | Why It Really Helps

What is your memory from the first time you had morning sex? With West Indian parents who were cool, but not that cool, learning the ways around morning sex was something I didn’t have to worry about for a while. But now, I know the importance of morning sex is crucial to my sexual and personal happiness. Find out how.

Sex-U-Cation | 2018 Sex Tips for 2019

Sex-U-Cation | 2018 Sex Tips for 2019

Before we get too deep into 2019, and drop these New Year’s resolutions for actual bad habits - what can we bring over from 2018? When it comes to sex and sexual health, 2018 has been a huge year for truth and change. So let’s take a moment to recap what 2018 taught us about sex and happiness.

Self-Reflection During Disappointment

Self-Reflection During Disappointment

I’ve been dealing with bouts of depression and lack of motivation. I have been thinking less of myself and operating out of fear by not operating at all. So this week with All The FUQs I’m taking a moment to reflect and be kind to myself. Hard to do but something I’ve learned can get you further than beating yourself up.

Messy Sex | The Best and Worst Messy Sex Experiences

Messy Sex | The Best and Worst Messy Sex Experiences

Messy sex it never talked about but hard to avoid. Well this week, if you can’t avoid it join it! Check out my best and worst messy sex experience and learn just how to make messy sex work for you.

Laughing During Sex | Laughing Out Loud (and Other Sounds) during Sex

Laughing During Sex | Laughing Out Loud (and Other Sounds) during Sex

Laughing during sex can be an incredible way to relax in bed. The reasons why you laugh in bed can be a great way to get to know yourself and your partner. This week J talks about what makes her and her partner laugh in bed, other sounds that come up in the bedroom, and and what it all means.