It is just the time to get ready for the new year. It’s December and not everyone and every decision from 2019 can or should come with you into 2020. 2020 is YOUR YEAR! But how will you know which ones to carry with you and which ones to send on their merry way?
All The Frequently Unanswered Questions has got you covered with the sex coach guide to making the most of 2020.
“Go more off of faith than fear”
Last year with all the sex scandals occurring, we kept you up with a sex-u-cation checklist to keep you safe.
Now, for the month of December, we will guide you through your decisions and relationships, your boundary setting and goal reaching this year, what to take away from them, and how to best prepare yourself to make 2020 YOUR year.
Week 1: Self Evaluation
A conversation about our own growth should start and end with taking a solid and HONEST inventory on ourselves. So get your pencil out and take note of your own stock. I mean… take note of what I am saying of course, but more so of you, your thoughts and your happiness (or lack there of) this year.
What was your goal for 2019?
To see where we ended up let’s see where we began! Last year this time, what was going on for you?
Where you starting a new relationship, kindling and old flame, or stepping out on your own?
What had derived you the most happiness from 2018 and what were you hoping to accomplish by this time this year? Had you decided to bet on yourself?
What was your routine?
One of the fastest ways to know if someone is serious about what they want to is look at their routines. What routines, if any did you set in place to set your goals up to win?
If there is anything to learn quickly, it is that speaking about an interest and actually setting up the time and space to see it done are two VERY different things.
Did you seek out a routine that you would optimize your chances for success? If not, why not? Was simply laziness or was there something else at work
What were your biggest distractions this year?
Now this can be a host of things. It could be something simple like social media or it could be the pressure to spend a lot of time with someone you find special. Or maybe, like most of is, self-doubt got in the way? When getting ready for the new year, go more off of faith than fear.
Did you visualize your future as you wanted it to be?
Visualization is everything! Trust me. Speak it, write it, say it out loud every day. There is no way around it. Try writing or typing your goals out on a 2 pieces of paper. Post one where you can see if every day and carry tote other one with you in your wallet during the day. As you are getting ready for the new year, reference your goal list regularly.
The F.U.Q.s
Nothing will happen if you do not believe that it will
Move more out of faith than in fear
Those who don’t get you, let go. Relationships can make or break your success- let it be the latter
