Given that we are nearing the end of Mental Health Month and after what are now closer-to-fact-than rumor discussions of Harvey Weinstein’s civil suit settlement, I need a mental break to consider one question: What does the real solution or solutions look like?
A Sex Two-Piece : Mental Health & Masturbation
It is both Masturbation and Mental Health Month! And this combo makes perfect sense to us as All The F.U.Qs. Why? Well, a major part of sex, pleasure, and sexual enjoyment is mental. All we often worry about is being physically apt, but when we are mentally checked out, sex can be be unenjoyable and even hurtful. Masturbation, though can be a low threshold way for us to combat our mental anxieties or alleviate stresses that take up way too much space.
Woman Up! | What Makes Up a Woman?
This is Women’s History Month y’all and I am wondering what makes up a woman? It is fantastic as a black woman to be able to see and celebrate people similar to you who have been able to do incredible things, but what I am I supposed to do with that? Considering the past, how can I woman up in 2019?
Sex Talk with the Aunties
One of the most intimidating things can be talking with an older family member about sex, but it doesn’t have to be. Dialogue about sex with older people in your family can be freeing, if they have the right intentions and ask thoughtful questions. Check out D’s experience and how refreshing and empowering “the sex talk” can be.
I Can't Orgasm: How My Orgasms Got Better With Practice
Rough Sex While Black
Self-Reflection During Disappointment
I’ve been dealing with bouts of depression and lack of motivation. I have been thinking less of myself and operating out of fear by not operating at all. So this week with All The FUQs I’m taking a moment to reflect and be kind to myself. Hard to do but something I’ve learned can get you further than beating yourself up.