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Woman Up! | What Makes Up a Woman?

Woman Up! | What Makes Up a Woman?

This is Women’s History Month y’all and I am wondering what makes up a woman? It is fantastic as a black woman to be able to see and celebrate people similar to you who have been able to do incredible things, but what I am I supposed to do with that? Considering the past, how can I woman up in 2019?

Black and Brown Communities, Title X and Trump | A Slap In the Face

Black and Brown Communities, Title X  and Trump | A Slap In the Face

Title X, people of color’s reproductive health, and Trump - how have they all become entangled, and what does it all mean? Timely (sadly) as it is, this week of Women’s History Month, we are focusing on the challenge to Title X, understanding the facts, and getting real about how it effects reproductive health in our communities and our right to access and body ownership.

I Can't Orgasm: How My Orgasms Got Better With Practice

I Can't Orgasm: How My Orgasms Got Better With Practice

Orgasms don’t just happen. They require an understanding of your body, patience in mind, and pleasure in the moment. I could not enjoy a penetrative orgasm for a long time. That is not longer the case. Hit the link and see why.

Sexting: Should We?

Sexting: Should We?

Considering this is a sex blog, it only makes sense to talk about sexting! Sex and technology have been finding more and more interesting ways to overlap and merge overtime meanwhile safety and privacy are considered less important to consider. So the question remains, is there a sexting guide that create a safe way to sext? And is it for us?

Sex With the Lights On | While Black

Sex With the Lights On | While Black

Sex with the lights on can be awkward, weird, and certainly un-sexy. Unless you decide that its not. We all have these made up ideas of why sex with the lights on is not for us, but are we missing out?

Rough Sex While Black

Rough Sex While Black

Rough sex can be hot, fun and exhilarating, but is as black folk, is rough sex while black ok? This week on All The FUQs, check out my thoughts on rough sex while black and come back next week on tips to have safe and enjoyable rough sex, you and your partner can enjoy.

Morning Sex | Why It Really Helps

Morning Sex | Why It Really Helps

What is your memory from the first time you had morning sex? With West Indian parents who were cool, but not that cool, learning the ways around morning sex was something I didn’t have to worry about for a while. But now, I know the importance of morning sex is crucial to my sexual and personal happiness. Find out how.

Sex-U-Cation | 2018 Sex Tips for 2019

Sex-U-Cation | 2018 Sex Tips for 2019

Before we get too deep into 2019, and drop these New Year’s resolutions for actual bad habits - what can we bring over from 2018? When it comes to sex and sexual health, 2018 has been a huge year for truth and change. So let’s take a moment to recap what 2018 taught us about sex and happiness.

Self-Reflection During Disappointment

Self-Reflection During Disappointment

I’ve been dealing with bouts of depression and lack of motivation. I have been thinking less of myself and operating out of fear by not operating at all. So this week with All The FUQs I’m taking a moment to reflect and be kind to myself. Hard to do but something I’ve learned can get you further than beating yourself up.